Thursday, 29 October 2009

Know How You Can Make Your Wife Pay More Interest In You

By Jemal Jelil

The best way of making love to your wife so she'll adore you and get enjoyment out of making you happy is simple, make it about her.

Exert the time to guarantee that it's an exciting experience for her.

Know when she needs to be hugged, touch her.

If she desires a kind present, give her one.

No, not just an exercise, man! Here's a pretty simple tip, if she loves flowers and from experience I know each girl does. Give her flowers! But put some thought into it, find out what flowers she prefers, what shades she likes.

Put an effort in selecting your gift. Get the florist's help if you need. Don't forget to put love and thought into it. Never mind that you feel gay choosing flowers. If you genuinely love your wife then you can get through it.

Praise her when she wants it and like before, give her some attention. Be sincere.

Do something she needs to be done, do it without waiting for her to tell you. Cook for her when she's not expecting it. She'll definitely feel special.

If she needs your time, make time for her.

Different women have different likes (although they have many likenesses), so know about your wife's specific tastes.

And that's the secret to a happy marriage: pay attention, man!

Now you know what you must do, it's time to know what you must avoid.

1) Hurl personal criticisms at her, by talking about things like, "Why are you always such a (fill in the blank)?!"

2) Get all defensive when she says concerns you don't agree with. Just stay present with her and try to understand her perception.

3) Be insulting with her, by not listening when she's in disagreement with you. Avoid insulting, and stuff like that.

4) Block her out, particularly when the situation is not yet clear. If there's anything that can push her away the most, then this will be it. Even when you feel that you can no longer tackle the situation, you should try real hard to be with her.

Otherwise, you'll push your wife away and she might end up finding that friendship with some other guy.

The idea of a cheating wife repulses me and really makes my blood boil. It's something that disgusts me on a personal level and also on a moral level. But this article is not for the women.

If I were speaking to wives, my advice would be different, but I'm speaking to you, a fellow husband and you only have power over your own self. So take charge of your marriage. Your wife will undeniably follow you and you might decide she's not the right partner for you.

Nevertheless, if you employ the tips I've included here, you'll certainly find yourself in a blissful marriage and not busied learning how to discover your wife being unfaithful, and studying stuff like unfaithful cheating wife signs.

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