Tuesday, 14 July 2009

Things To Do When You Catch Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend Cheating

By Travisk Lash

Cheating may be on your mind if you are on a serious boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with someone. Not being married does not mean that you won't get hurt if you get cheated on.

You may be curious on what to do if you catch your girlfriend/boyfriend cheating. Yes, doing an internet search will give you results of married couples but not being married means having to put up with a cheating partner.

If you are aware that your partner has been cheating, you will have to step back first. Think about the matter thoroughly. Catching a cheating partner may make you react impulsively. It may be expected of you but it can be risky. Read on to know what things you should do if you are cheated on.

If you catch your partner in the act like having sex with another person, leave the room right away. Confirming the affair is ok but staying to argue should not be done. Leave right away unless you are in you're own house. This will make you think about the thing that you saw and what you should do without thinking of the naked bodies.

Analyze what you learned and saw. If you want to end the relationship right away, try to not to just yet. Instead, ask for time apart. This would be ideal if you are not living in together yet, but if you are, ask your partner to stay with someone else for the moment or have him stay in the guest room.

If you want to end the relationship right away, try to think about it first. Although you have to be open to the idea that once one cheats, it may just happen again. Do you always want to worry about your partner cheating every time?

If you want to save your relationship on the other hand, recommend counseling for your partner. Although this only happens usually to married couple, couples counseling is also available and will be helpful as well. The chances of saving the relationship is bigger if you are older and in a long term relationship as compared to those in their teens. For a lot of people, being in a long term relationship is worthy to be saved.

What you should never do on the other hand is resort to violence. This is tend to happen when you catch a cheating partner, whether it's verbal or physical or even both, never resort to it as it may just make matters worse.

As you know, there are so many different ways that you can do to put up with a cheating partner. Whatever you want to do, always follow your heart and decide by using your mind as well.

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