Lately, Filipino women otherwise known as "Pinay" has filled up internet cafes in order to search for a foreign husband. There are those who are honestly looking for true love online and sadly there are women who want to marry foreigners mainly for financial reasons. These women are the ones who will do anything just to marry foreigners.
It is my personal belief that there is nothing wrong to desire to marry a person that is stable financially. I would even consider it a very a good decision to choose somebody who is financially stable and by that I am not saying that he or she must be necessarily rich.
I also believe that there is nothing wrong with marrying foreigners. In fact I have good friends who are married to foreigners.
Don't get me wrong. I have nothing against Filipino women who marry rich foreigners, for as long as they marry because they truly love their foreign spouse.
What I am critically against is when a Filipino woman marry foreigners for financial reasons or just in order that they could be saved from poverty or for the purpose of going abroad.
It may be unthinkable but some Filipino women really do this. In fact I would go the extent of calling them as having "prostituted" themselves just to attain a much more higher standing in life. These type of women do not even care if the guy they are marrying is old enough to be their grandfathers.
A much more disturbing situation is when married Filipino women present themselves online as as single when in fact they are married. I came across sad stories of broken marriages being attributed to the wife having a foreign boyfriend even if she is still living with her husband.
You might think such situation is the ultimate scandal. But be prepared for more, the ultimate scandal is that some Filipino husbands even consent to what their wives are doing. What happens is that when the foreigner comes to the Philippines, the husband simply claims he is a relative.
Shame on the Filipino women who are doing this, More shame to the husband who consents to his wife's illegal deeds. A more scandalous circumstance is that we are not doing something about it as a people. This indeed is what we would call as the "Pinay Scandal.
It is my personal belief that there is nothing wrong to desire to marry a person that is stable financially. I would even consider it a very a good decision to choose somebody who is financially stable and by that I am not saying that he or she must be necessarily rich.
I also believe that there is nothing wrong with marrying foreigners. In fact I have good friends who are married to foreigners.
Don't get me wrong. I have nothing against Filipino women who marry rich foreigners, for as long as they marry because they truly love their foreign spouse.
What I am critically against is when a Filipino woman marry foreigners for financial reasons or just in order that they could be saved from poverty or for the purpose of going abroad.
It may be unthinkable but some Filipino women really do this. In fact I would go the extent of calling them as having "prostituted" themselves just to attain a much more higher standing in life. These type of women do not even care if the guy they are marrying is old enough to be their grandfathers.
A much more disturbing situation is when married Filipino women present themselves online as as single when in fact they are married. I came across sad stories of broken marriages being attributed to the wife having a foreign boyfriend even if she is still living with her husband.
You might think such situation is the ultimate scandal. But be prepared for more, the ultimate scandal is that some Filipino husbands even consent to what their wives are doing. What happens is that when the foreigner comes to the Philippines, the husband simply claims he is a relative.
Shame on the Filipino women who are doing this, More shame to the husband who consents to his wife's illegal deeds. A more scandalous circumstance is that we are not doing something about it as a people. This indeed is what we would call as the "Pinay Scandal.
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