Thursday, 21 January 2010

5 Mistakes Can Destroy Your Relationship!

By Bonita Li

Most people do not understand that every relationship requires time, endurance and effort to sustain. As a result, their relationships fall away. If you do not want to experience an unsuccessful relationship, you should avoid making some common mistakes you may make in a relationship.

Most of the failed relationship is because of negative behaviors and attitudes, however it is really hard for them to realize this. Therefore, you should read through all the top 5 mistakes!

1) Having loose end. You should have overcome your obsession with your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend before starting a new relationship. Your new partner will be suspicious, distrustful and insecure if you have any unsolved problem with your past. It is no good for a new relationship. In order to prevent both of you from getting hurt, a strong foundation should be built at the beginning of the relationship.

2) Saying "I love you" soon. It is not necessary to say this magic words too early in a relationship, as it will create loophole and lead to heartbreak very soon. So, you should observe more, and wait for a good sign to declare your love openly.

3) Getting jealous too easily. It is normal to be jealous because it is also a way to show your love. But too much jealousy is not healthy to a relationship. It will damage the trust you build with your partner and can reduce intimacy.

4) Cheating. Don't try to cheat if you are serious in a relationship. You should remain unattached and stay clear with what you want if you can't control yourself in a relationship.

5) Not letting go. It maybe hard for us to forgive others. However, you should prepare yourself to learn letting go. Don't dwell and stay mad, or even nourish injuries, try to forgive.

Apart from these five mistakes, there are still many other mistakes you should be aware of.

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