Friday, 25 September 2009

To Save A Marriage - The Warning Signs

By Sebastian Thomas

Have you found your self always depressed in your marriage day after day, not really knowing what to do to alleviate it and bring in some "once and for all" fun in your life? You may ask yourself what happened to the good ole days when you used to go out with your spouse to almost every event and everything always seemed to be fine.

Yes, this kind of stuff happens without the aggressor person even realizing what he or she is really doing. It may seem cool to just push someone around in your relationship but in reality you are only hurting them and allowing them to understand that you really do not take them seriously or even care to save the marriage, before it ends abruptly.

Understand that depression in a marriage can effect your spouse in a negative way, even if he or she doesn't feel the way you do. This can cause a person to wonder about his or her position in a marriage or relationship. This may also bring up questions of uncertainty and confusion that can worsen over time, if not handled with care.

Having the warning signs in place allows to you further evaluate the situation before it becomes any worse than what it already is. Approaching this will care can allow you to successfully save the marriage for the better.

If you are unhappy in your relationship or marriage, then talk about it instead of exchanging negative words of hate, distrust and self-doubt. Remember, that your spouse doesn't know what is going on in your mind, so don't assume that he or she does in these cases.

If you are ready to save your marriage, focus on a more positive attitude and careful thinking. Approach things with care and ease, such as communicating and listening to your spouse or partner. Ask yourself what they are doing in life and join them head on. A marriage is a union of two souls, not one soul facing in one direction while the other in another direction. Face the same way to realize the strength that you can give and offer each other.

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