Have you split up and want to get your ex back? Or you're on the verge of splitting and want to save your relationship. The three tips in this article may help you out.
It's not going to be an easy task to save your relationship but it should be a worthwhile one. Especially if you both silently realise it shouldn't be over. The next three tips could be just the thing to kick-start you into getting your ex back, or your relationship back on the rails.
1 - Back to the very beginning
What was it about your partner that first attracted you to them? What attracted them to you? It's easy to forget these things when you settle into the hum drum routine of a long term relationship.
When you first got together you work hard being the person they fell for. Try to find, and be that very person again. You need to rediscover the person that your ex (or partner) first fell in love with.
2 - Mutual attraction
Being attractive to your partner is key to a good relationship. Without it there is nothing. Magnets either attract or repel, depending on which way round you put them. If you aren't attracting your partner you must be repelling them.
Attraction can be many things. Not just someone who is pleasing on the eye. You could be attracted to their sense of humour or total independence. Pinpoint what it was that attracted them to you and recreate it.
3 - Talk it over
You won't save your relationship by subjecting your partner to grilling. No one likes heavy duty "talks" and most will try hard to avoid them. If you can keep the conversation light and friendly this will help bring you closer.
When you first met and conversation was easy and smooth. This is what you need to recreate now. It was those early conversations that brought you both closer. Demonstrate to your ex (or partner) that you can be that person again that they first met and enjoyed chatting to and you will have a better chance of saving your relationship.
Relationship rescue 101
The three tips above may seem simple enough. But you may find that you simply cannot act on them. A lot of people lack the confidence to actually take action, and sadly end up doing nothing. I've been there & done that, or not done it as is the case here. A lack of confidence will greatly reduce your chances of success.
It's not going to be an easy task to save your relationship but it should be a worthwhile one. Especially if you both silently realise it shouldn't be over. The next three tips could be just the thing to kick-start you into getting your ex back, or your relationship back on the rails.
1 - Back to the very beginning
What was it about your partner that first attracted you to them? What attracted them to you? It's easy to forget these things when you settle into the hum drum routine of a long term relationship.
When you first got together you work hard being the person they fell for. Try to find, and be that very person again. You need to rediscover the person that your ex (or partner) first fell in love with.
2 - Mutual attraction
Being attractive to your partner is key to a good relationship. Without it there is nothing. Magnets either attract or repel, depending on which way round you put them. If you aren't attracting your partner you must be repelling them.
Attraction can be many things. Not just someone who is pleasing on the eye. You could be attracted to their sense of humour or total independence. Pinpoint what it was that attracted them to you and recreate it.
3 - Talk it over
You won't save your relationship by subjecting your partner to grilling. No one likes heavy duty "talks" and most will try hard to avoid them. If you can keep the conversation light and friendly this will help bring you closer.
When you first met and conversation was easy and smooth. This is what you need to recreate now. It was those early conversations that brought you both closer. Demonstrate to your ex (or partner) that you can be that person again that they first met and enjoyed chatting to and you will have a better chance of saving your relationship.
Relationship rescue 101
The three tips above may seem simple enough. But you may find that you simply cannot act on them. A lot of people lack the confidence to actually take action, and sadly end up doing nothing. I've been there & done that, or not done it as is the case here. A lack of confidence will greatly reduce your chances of success.
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