You have been involved in a relationship and all of sudden your boyfriend "wants more space", you are feeling hurt and confused. I am going to give you some insights that might help bring your ex boyfriend back.
When someone says they want more space, it is often because they are confused on what they want and ... you are one of the reasons for that.
It is possible he is more interested in someone else at this moment but does not have the courage to tell you that. If this is the case, trust me, you do not want to be with this person anyway. They will never be happy.
To get him back, you need to provide compelling reasons for him to want to get back together with you. People are always looking for reasons to stay or reasons to go in relationships. You are going to provide the reasons to stay.
How you do this is by changing yourself to be someone your ex boyfriend would want to be with.
Who is person I need to be? When you first got together ... did you behave any different than you do now? Were there happy times when you first starting dating? What did you act like? Was your attitude any different than from today? Were you strong and confident? Did you try and win him over? Were you weak and desperate? Were you needy or clingy? Really take a look at these questions and more. You might just discover some things have really changed.
When you figure out some of the changes, all you need to do is BE that the person your ex boyfriend was head of heals for before. Be independent, strong, confident, funny, caring, etc.
Secondly, you attitude is you are going to be this person regardless of whether your ex boyfriend comes back to you or not. Your attitude is it is his loss and you are moving on. Life is too short to sit around waiting to see if your boyfriend wants you back.
It is critical that your ex gets the message that you are ok with the breakup and are moving on. This is when your ex will start to realize what he is missing and don't be surprised if he comes back just by using this simple technique alone.
When someone says they want more space, it is often because they are confused on what they want and ... you are one of the reasons for that.
It is possible he is more interested in someone else at this moment but does not have the courage to tell you that. If this is the case, trust me, you do not want to be with this person anyway. They will never be happy.
To get him back, you need to provide compelling reasons for him to want to get back together with you. People are always looking for reasons to stay or reasons to go in relationships. You are going to provide the reasons to stay.
How you do this is by changing yourself to be someone your ex boyfriend would want to be with.
Who is person I need to be? When you first got together ... did you behave any different than you do now? Were there happy times when you first starting dating? What did you act like? Was your attitude any different than from today? Were you strong and confident? Did you try and win him over? Were you weak and desperate? Were you needy or clingy? Really take a look at these questions and more. You might just discover some things have really changed.
When you figure out some of the changes, all you need to do is BE that the person your ex boyfriend was head of heals for before. Be independent, strong, confident, funny, caring, etc.
Secondly, you attitude is you are going to be this person regardless of whether your ex boyfriend comes back to you or not. Your attitude is it is his loss and you are moving on. Life is too short to sit around waiting to see if your boyfriend wants you back.
It is critical that your ex gets the message that you are ok with the breakup and are moving on. This is when your ex will start to realize what he is missing and don't be surprised if he comes back just by using this simple technique alone.
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