Tuesday, 22 September 2009

A Sign Of A Cheating Spouse.

By Sabrina Summerfrield

Bad attitude- If your spouses' attitude changes from loving to bad you can seriously consider it a sign of a cheating spouse. Irritability levels increasing without no reasonable explanation is the number one method employed by most cheaters to pick a fight in order to get away from home and back to their no or old lovers arm. If your spouse chooses to climbing into his or her car and drive off instead of sitting down and discussing the problem you can be sure he or she is on their way to the other person. The best thing will be for you to follow him or her, but please be discreet. Borrow someone else's car or call in the help of a private investigator or else it will all be in vain. General home and family activities may also be neglecting as there is no interest in his or her old life and daily routines.

Calls- Constant outbound or inbound calls answered outside the home or with a whispering tone needs your undivided attention. Even extra cell phones may be bought for the purpose of constant communication with the other person. These extra phones will usually be kept in the cabby hole or under the seat of the car.

Grooming- Changes in grooming is a dead give away of some kind of behaviour requiring regular shaving of legs, pubis, arms or face, to be as fresh and great smelling as possible. If you are old news your spouse will probably think you are use to the old smell, only new news requires a new smell so you can be sure that perfume and aftershave use will also increase significantly.

Statement snooping- If you have any idea that your spouse is cheating on you, do a little bit of snooping in his or her credit or debit card statements. Keep an eye out for unfamiliar references, strange charges and substantial amounts credited or debited to the account. Your overall home budget may also decrease to cater for gifts, account payments etc for the other person.

Physical evidence- If you are looking for a sign of a cheating spouse, physical evidence is the thing to get. Check for underwear with sperm stains, perfume or aftershave scents, jewellery and condoms.

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