Monday, 22 June 2009

Why Do Men Cheat?

By Sabrina Summerfrield

Here's a question that can never seem to get answered correctly, why do men cheat? No man can say that they have never cheated on a significant other at one point and time. Men go through women like they go through socks. If one is not doing what they expect, they cheat on her with one that will. Not the correct approach to take, but many do.

The old saying men will be men, has been turned into an all around cheater slogan. A real man is not a man that cheats on his women because he wants another. A real man is someone who is willing to work out his relationship problems in hopes of saving what he already has waiting for him at home.

Boredom is a great answer on why men cheat on their significant others. The sex is the same, or the spark is gone are common adages used, when asked about why they were cheating. First of all, if the problem stems from the bedroom, maybe your significant other is performing how you say to, because they assume this what you want.

Boredom is another common excuse, but you would have to ask them if they have ever bothered to talk about it with their companion. It is only natural that the initial passion wears down a little bit, but you have every opportunity to liven it back up. It's a two way street and you can't blame boredom solely on the woman. Take a look in the mirror before you go chasing after someone else.

Men have ego's about as big as they come. Many of them only equate their belt notches of conquered females with their general worth to society. Not the greatest approach, but unfortunately, far too many men look at it that way. Regardless of what they have waiting for them at home, they don't feel like a man unless they can bed everyone woman that so much as looks their way. So these are the answers to why do men cheat.

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