Its always a clich, the first time you are together, you think your world revolves around him. You are both sweet, no quarrels no wars, no people seems to exist when you are together. The romance and love in the air seems to be never ending. But it all turn upside down with just two words, break up.
Oh, sure, each and everyone of us, one way or another, have heard that line before. May it be the exact phrase stated above or the other versions. Any how, whatever versions you might have heard, they are only mean one thing: BREAK UP.
Break Up scenario will always leave a sting in the heart of persons involved. We can never deny that. After all, when you are in a relationship, the last thing that you can imagine is your boyfriend or your girlfriend will leave you.
But then, lets us be realistic here, So, what if your partner broke up with you? As in leaves you for good. What are you going to do? How are you going to deal this painful situation?
Definitely, you will get hurt. You will feel this rip in your heart that all you want to do is cry. You will get affected that you dont want to eat, you dont want to go to work and so on.
But, hey you cannot go on like this, right? In one way or another, you have to live your life without this person in your side anymore.
Live your life in day to day basis. Do not be in a hurry to erase in one single night of crying the memories you shared or the memory of this person. Do not be too harsh to yourself.
Keep yourself busy. Go for vacation and take with you your friends if possible. By keeping your friends close to you, at this point of your life, you have people to share with, just to ease the pain slowly.
Dont waste your time staring at the wall of your room. Go out and have fun. Engage in sports. You will not only be strong physically but also you will interact with other people.
Continue living your life normally. You are not the only one who has undergone that. Yes it is painful but it should not stop you from living your life to the fullest. Pull your self out of that pit and be back to your self.
Oh, sure, each and everyone of us, one way or another, have heard that line before. May it be the exact phrase stated above or the other versions. Any how, whatever versions you might have heard, they are only mean one thing: BREAK UP.
Break Up scenario will always leave a sting in the heart of persons involved. We can never deny that. After all, when you are in a relationship, the last thing that you can imagine is your boyfriend or your girlfriend will leave you.
But then, lets us be realistic here, So, what if your partner broke up with you? As in leaves you for good. What are you going to do? How are you going to deal this painful situation?
Definitely, you will get hurt. You will feel this rip in your heart that all you want to do is cry. You will get affected that you dont want to eat, you dont want to go to work and so on.
But, hey you cannot go on like this, right? In one way or another, you have to live your life without this person in your side anymore.
Live your life in day to day basis. Do not be in a hurry to erase in one single night of crying the memories you shared or the memory of this person. Do not be too harsh to yourself.
Keep yourself busy. Go for vacation and take with you your friends if possible. By keeping your friends close to you, at this point of your life, you have people to share with, just to ease the pain slowly.
Dont waste your time staring at the wall of your room. Go out and have fun. Engage in sports. You will not only be strong physically but also you will interact with other people.
Continue living your life normally. You are not the only one who has undergone that. Yes it is painful but it should not stop you from living your life to the fullest. Pull your self out of that pit and be back to your self.
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