The feeling of love revitalizes us and helps our relationship to thrive. But however much love we have with our partner, it is natural to often want more. We are biologically hardwired to want to feel more love.
But we all seem to have been taught that we have little or no control over the amount of love we feel in our relationship. Like love is some special emotion that we have to hope we get blessed with from outside ourselves.
Don't look at love like some special visitor. You can create love. You can add it into your relationship on purpose. You have some control over the amount of love in your life.
You can create love in your life. You can cause more of it in your relationship. You can choose to build love and take actions to make it happen.
How can you create love? There are many ways, but a great place to start is instead of looking for love look to give love. Give love away. If you give it, more will come.
What in the heck does this mean? Well, you can take ten minutes a day and give love to your mate. This could be giving them a back rub. It could be doing the dishes with them. It could be asking them to walk around the neighborhood with you, just taking some time to be together.
The important thing isnt what you do but it is more to just practice loving. Practice giving love. Practice giving kind attention to your mate. It isnt hard to do, if you focus on just ten minutes a day. And for that ten minutes give them your complete time and attention. Make them right. (You can always go back to arguing and making them wrong later!)
If you try this giving love for ten minutes a day for just one week, it can change the feel of your whole relationship. You may find you can have all the love you want, if you start giving it some instead of waiting around for the world to give it to you. You can discover that you have the power to cause love, which is a powerful life lesson!
But we all seem to have been taught that we have little or no control over the amount of love we feel in our relationship. Like love is some special emotion that we have to hope we get blessed with from outside ourselves.
Don't look at love like some special visitor. You can create love. You can add it into your relationship on purpose. You have some control over the amount of love in your life.
You can create love in your life. You can cause more of it in your relationship. You can choose to build love and take actions to make it happen.
How can you create love? There are many ways, but a great place to start is instead of looking for love look to give love. Give love away. If you give it, more will come.
What in the heck does this mean? Well, you can take ten minutes a day and give love to your mate. This could be giving them a back rub. It could be doing the dishes with them. It could be asking them to walk around the neighborhood with you, just taking some time to be together.
The important thing isnt what you do but it is more to just practice loving. Practice giving love. Practice giving kind attention to your mate. It isnt hard to do, if you focus on just ten minutes a day. And for that ten minutes give them your complete time and attention. Make them right. (You can always go back to arguing and making them wrong later!)
If you try this giving love for ten minutes a day for just one week, it can change the feel of your whole relationship. You may find you can have all the love you want, if you start giving it some instead of waiting around for the world to give it to you. You can discover that you have the power to cause love, which is a powerful life lesson!
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You can learn much more about these things in the free course 7 Vital Intimacy Insights You Never Learned In School at How To Have The Relationship You Want. Johnnie S Laney teaches relationship courses and you can get more here Love Relationship Advice Help.
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