Tuesday, 30 June 2009

How to Find and Build A Relationship With A Foreign Fiance

By Art Saborio

The first step is to find someone you are interested. Once you find an interest in someone, the next step is to meet her for the first time. It is very important to meet your fiance. It is a requirement before you can submit your application for the K1 Visa. It is also necessary to ensure this is actually the girl you want to spend the rest of your life with. Now most girls you meet from Russia or the Ukraine are very beautiful, but beauty alone will not ensure a happy marriage.

There are many websites that cater to just Ukrainian or Russian women. Most are reputable, but you want to double check to ensure they follow a strict no scam policy. Most reputable websites will display a no scam logo on their website. You should be able to click on this logo and it will take you to the appropriate website where you can find out more detailed information.

Many moons ago, I personally used Kiev Connections and Elena's Models, but I was blessed with finding my wife through other connections. You will find that you will have a lot of successes and enjoyment just using just these two websites. Go slow and take your time. Talk to a number of ladies. The more women you communicate with, the better idea you will get of who and what you want in a fiance and relationship. Relationships take time to build. When it comes to relationships, speed if your enemy. Take your time.

Take your time and talk to a number of ladies. The more women you communicate with, the better idea you will get of who and what you want in a relationship. Just like any relationship it takes time to build. Don't feel obligated to meet just one girl. If you find an interest in more than one girl, then by all means meet them all. The two websites mentioned in this article can setup multiple dates for you. So all you have to do is show up in the country of your choice and meet the girls. When you find one or two that you like, spend some more time with them and see which one really fits your idea of long lasting relationship.

Narrowed down the search to one lady? If so, then it is time to start building that strong relationship bond with your special someone. It is best to meet your lady at least two or three times. Why two or three times? Because as time passes, things change. I can personally say that there were a lot of changes between the time I met my fiance to the time we became husband and wife.

My fiance (wife) was very shy the first time I met her. She was not much into discussing a life together. She was spending more time trying to find out whether I matched her ideas of who I was and whether or not she could be married to me. For me it was hard to understand her and her culture. Although I talked to her for many months through emails and phone calls, each meeting was different. It was like getting to know her all over again.

I would plan a trip to see her every six months. It really helped build a very strong bond between us. Our relationship grew a little bit more with every meeting.

Remember that just like any normal relationship it takes a while to really get to know the person. Once you are secure in your feelings the better things will go for you.

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