Wednesday, 2 December 2009

Discover How To Win Back Your Ex.

By Brian Hunter

When you part ways with a woman who was very special to you you will soon realise how much you want to get her back. It's true, you don't know what you have until it's gone. Because of this a lot of ex couples get back together and experience the thrills they once enjoyed together. But your efforts will be futile if they're misguided. Here in this article you will discover the secrets that will assist you if you want to win back girlfriend.

Before you go deep into trying to get her back you have to carry out an inner journey of self-discovery. You have to look deep inside yourself and ask yourself how much you want her back. This will involve analysing your relationship and finding out if you really feel like being with her again. In most circumstances this is not done and as a result the make-up ends up in another break up. If you're not sure this will be reflected in your actions, something that will work against you.

During this time you should give your ex girlfriend room. Choking her with attention and persuasive conversation will only drive her away. The reason for this is that she feels bad about what happened and she's still too fresh from the break up to suddenly fall back into your arms. Creating that void will make her miss you more if she really loved you. Another thing about this is that you won't appear desperate, a characteristic that drives women crazy.

Think hard about where and how you first met. If you can successfully woo her again in a fashion similar to how you did so the first time she might see connecting factors she may have overlooked. Reconnecting in the area you met for the first time will rekindle any feelings that could have been disappearing fast. Create that bond and the job will be a lot easier.

Surprise your ex girlfriend on her birthday if it's yet to come. Timing is crucial because if done correctly she will feel like being with you again. If you still remember what she like the most this is the perfect chance to resurrect feeling that may have died. Get her her favourite drink; chocolate or DVD and she will look at you in a way that will show you how much she would like to be with you again.

Take the initiative to call and to setup a date after she agrees to talk again. But you must remember that if it was your fault that you broke up then the call is on you. This will prove that you have changed and that you're apologetic. If it was her fault then you shouldn't do so because you will seem desperate.

They say distance makes the heart grow fonder. Give yourself the chance to miss each other and the force of attraction between the two of you will be unconquerable. Dividing yourselves will create a deeper understanding of what you both mean to each other. During this interval you should see other women so that you know how special she was. If you find someone different and special then you won't have to pursue your ex, her replacement is right before your eyes.

Most of all you should have fun during your break up. It's not like you're supposed to do this on purpose but she should see you having fun at least once or twice. This will make her realise what she's missing and even make her think twice.

Lastly you should keep conversations with her short; optimistic and fun. This applies to when you call her or run into her. This will make her want you and think of you more and more.

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